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Kerani Arpaia's avatar

I love your transparency here, thank you! And your parting comment that you don’t agree with hustle culture just made me so happy, because I’ve come to feel the same way 😊

I love the idea of including subscriptions on my substack, I just feel like I’m not quite there yet. For me, this space is really about non-performative creativity and challenging my own insecurities around imperfection. I worry that adding on subscriptions will make me start seeing this as a “business” where I’m trying to please others, rather than a space for me to play and grow and be creative.

On the other hand, I wonder if that’s me getting in my own way a bit, assuming that people won’t want to subscribe if I’m just doing what I want to do for me. I know there wouldn’t be any harm in adding them, so long as I didn’t get in my own head about it. Maybe people would be interested, maybe they wouldn’t 🤷‍♀️

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Silvia Põldaru's avatar

Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Thoroughly enjoyed it and so much to say. I don't like the whole side hustle thing either and there's a whole array of issues I'm working on actually valuing my own work and taking that courageous step to choose a paywall for some of the content. The way I see it, paid content is for me and for the people who truly resonate with it and want that extra bit more of intimacy and vulnerability, and want to offer the support for me to keep writiting in that capacity. As you said, at 39, I'm done with meaningless conversations. I wanna go deep. I wanna know you deeply. What's holding you back from living your vision (besides the fact that we all gotta pay the bills and live in this human body). What's the nudge in you that just won't let go? And how can we support and empower each other to actually heed the call to live in alignment with our visions for our lives? I'm done chasing and hustling. If you know Tarot, my life card is the Hermit. So I'm gonna embrace my inner Hermit and just sit on my mountain and share the wisdom that emerges. And the people that resonate will just have to follow that light from my little lantern. Anyway, went off on a little daydream trip there. All in all, I love your intentionality with this space and I resonate with it. Cultivating a community of like-hearted people feels way more resonant than side-hustling.

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